15 reasons why you should read the Bible Daily

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hey, everyone! Welcome to my blog. I am going to be talking about why you should try your best to read the bible every day, some people find it really hard to read the Bible daily. They only read the bible in church and during devotions. I just want to show you reasons why you should read the Bible daily and I hope that after you read this post you understand why you need to read the Bible. here are the reasons:

  1. To get rid of anxiety and have peace (Psalm 119:165)
  2. To set things right when life is out of control (Psalm 19:7-8)
  3. To have direction and Know God’s will (Psalm 119:105)
  4. To experience healing and deliverance (Psalm 107:20)
  5. To grow in the Lord (1 Peter 2:2)
  6. To have strength, comfort, and hope (Psalm 119:28, 50, 114)
  7. To shape yourself and your life correctly (Psalm 119:11)
  8. To be able to see clearly (Psalm 119:130)
  9. To have Joy (Psalm 16:11)
  10. To understand God’s power (John 1:3)
  11. To understand God’s love for you (John 1:14)
  12. To build Faith (Romans 10:17)
  13. To distinguish good from evil (Psalm 119:101-102)
  14. To know whats really in your heart (Hebrew 4:12)
  15. To have more life in this life (Psalm 119:50)

Those are some of the reasons why you should read the Bible daily. To get the most out of the Bible, take care not to pick and choose certain verses to neglect others. Try to read the entire Bible from beginning to end. This way, you will gain a much better understanding of what the Bible really teaches as a whole. Thank you for reading! don’t forget to subscribe by clicking the follow button and also share, you can also drop your comments below.

 

 

 

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10 ways to deal with Low Self-Esteem

hey everyone! Welcome to my blog. I am going to be talking about how you can deal with low self-esteem, a lot of people deal with low self-esteem and because of this, they make bad decisions in order to build up their self-esteem and those decisions affect them later in the future. so that’s why I decided to share 10 ways you can deal with it. here they are:

  1. Start a compliment Jar

Many people probably think that this won’t work but they are wrong. for an entire month, write down something you like about yourself every single day, any compliment that’s truly positive counts. At the end of the month, go through your positive thoughts and reflect on them.

2. Start living for now.

Low self-esteem is often a problem of putting too much emphasis on things that can’t be changed or that are too far in the future to tell the outcome. Stop thinking these thoughts and live in the now.

3. Keep a Journal

I had a journal once, I wrote in it practically every day but then I stopped not because it wasn’t helping but because my aunt took it and read it LOL but basically when you write down your feelings, you get them out in a healthy way. Once you release them through quick and freeform writing. Close your journal for the day and don’t open it again until its time to write again. People think that having a journal is actually childish but I don’t think so.

4. Become Aware of your negativity

When you catch yourself being negative, actively acknowledge it. When you recognize your negativity, you give yourself the chance to respond with positivity. To be very honest I am a really negative person but I try my best to be positive and you should too.

5. Ask Yourself “IF…”.

“If someone else was in my position, would I make them feel negative?” Sometimes looking objectively at yourself and your situation can make you feel more positive.

6. Stop Judging Yourself And Others

Normally those with low self-esteem are also very negative in other areas of their life. If you find yourself criticizing others, STOP. Be more positive in all areas of your life.

7. Start Meditating.

Doing Something relaxing can help you become more positive about yourself. Try and let go of all your inner anxiety and breathe for 15 minutes a day or more. It works!

8. Have conversations with yourself.

This is not creepy at all! instead of you falling back on negative thoughts, start talking to yourself like an adult. Converse with yourself, ask yourself questions like why you are feeling the way you do? How can you make it better? sometimes I have conversations in my head and I start to laugh, people are always staring at me.

9. Learn To Let It All Go

Disconnecting from what’s making you anxious can sometimes be the best thing for you. When you have low self-esteem, learn not to put so much investment into what you’re upset by about yourself.

10. Be an active participant in your life.

Don’t be a backseat driver. When you let your emotions run your life. you aren’t truly in control. Start actively participating in your life to help develop a more positive attitude.

Well, that’s all on the 10 ways you can deal with low self-esteem. I hope you enjoyed what you just read. If you follow this steps I can assure you that you will beat low self-esteem. You can share your thoughts in the comment section below and Don’t forget to click the follow button to stay updated.

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What makes you happy ?

Most of us today have planted different ideas of what makes us happy and these ideas have really stuck with us.The truth is when you can pinpoint what makes you happy you can add more of it to your life.

I had the opportunity to ask people about what makes them happy and this were their answers:

  • Onome said, “Money makes me happy when I have money I am happy”.
  • Nora said “Money of course”.
  • Nnaya said, “I am happy when the people I love are happy”.
  • Anthony said “Basketball, music and plantain”.
  • Aob said “Money”.
  • Simi said, “Money makes me happy”.
  • Sultan said, “I’m happy when people I love are happy and when I am doing what I love”.

looking at this answers, the majority believe that money is what makes them happy. In my opinion, money doesn’t give happiness it only adds to your level of happiness but it doesn’t cause it directly. I agree that, in some situations, money can make people happy, that’s if their happiness depends on material goods. Someone may have a lot of money and feel miserable for many reasons. I am not saying that money is not important. In our society, we need money to survive, but it can not be the focus of our lives. We all have our opinions.

A lot of things make me happy, but here are a few things i believe make me happy :

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Most of the things on my list can’t be gotten without money, food can’t be gotten without money, you can’t travel without money, you also can’t shop without money. So I guess in a way money brings happiness.

Do more of what makes you happy to be happy.

You can share your thoughts on this post in the comment section below.

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Think Big!

Hey guys so the new year is so close and i had the idea of talking about thinking bigger than what you set your mind to.Most people limit themselves to a particular area they set for themselves in life and because of that they keep revolving round the limit they set for themselves.

How can we break through the limitations we’ve set for ourselves?

Sometimes we assign the role of the ‘Big Thinker’ to some people, but we don’t necessarily see ourselves in that role and that is because negative peers and colleagues tell you why something will never work, or your own internalized voice, telling you the same thing. But if you want to overcome this habit you have to let go of your self-limitations and give new things a try. Here are four steps you can use to expand your horizon:

Get Comfortable with Discomfort: this is all about taking risks, you don’t like something but you know that one way or another it can help improve your goals, the only way to know for sure is by taking the risk.

Set the Right Kind of Goals:  Some believe that “thinking big” means you should set wildly ambitious stretch goals to inspire yourself to greater heights but i believe that we sometimes set unrealistic goals for ourselves, and as a result, we’re miserable. Don’t set yourself up for disappointment by setting ambiguously huge goals, set a goal that is attainable.

Find supportive friends: Having a strong, positive network is crucial, having people around you that inspire you, support you and are ready to help you, not friends that say yes to every idea you bring to the table.Often, when we’re asking people to support us, we’re just asking for approval. But if we’re looking for results, we have to be comfortable with the feedback of people asking us to think bigger and try harder. If you’re really looking for people to push you, you want them to say, ‘That’s great and I think you could improve this’.

Become the Person Others Want to Help: Other people determine whether or not we’re successful. Thinking big requires understanding that the biggest and most meaningful projects simply can’t be accomplished on your own. Other people are going to open the doors and spread your messages. So how can you get others involved and inspired to help?  You make commitments and fulfill them, you learn in action, and you deal with your voice of judgment without being critical of others.

I hope you learnt a lot from this post, don’t forget to subscribe by clicking the follow button. Happy new year in advance!

Be Yourself !

“Waking up to who you are required letting go of who you imagine yourself to be”- Alan Watts

Don’t try to be someone else, be yourself, be secure with yourself and trust your own decisions. Self-love is one of the greatest attributes a person can have, without this attribute you are left vulnerable to the outside world which makes it easy for people to push you around and this leads to your downfall. I have seen situations where people find it really hard to be themselves all because they “want to belong” and that’s wrong, you don’t have to change to belong.

I was once shy and reclusive but I wasn’t being myself, whenever I noticed myself getting attached to the labels that people kept in my head it was a big challenge because I cared so much about being accepted by others so I would ask myself,”how would I act right now if I had no cares of what others thought of me?” I realized that who I am naturally without anything else added is perfectly okay.

The truth is when you begin to question who you are, you lose confidence in yourself because you have the mentality that you are not good enough for people to see and you try your best to fix yourself when initially there was nothing wrong with you and in the process of fixing yourself, you become something that the people that never paid attention to you in the first place can mock and bully with their words. Don’t change for anyone, don’t change your character, your attitude and behavior. You are perfect the way you are!

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How to get over a breakup.

A while back I watched a close friend of mine go through a breakup, and it was really sad, she was having a hard time getting over it, so I was inspired to give some simple tips on how to get over a breakup

1. Either block or unfriend him, because that will be the death of you. Most people might find this really childish but it’s actually better if you block him from all parts of your life if you don’t you just keep on remembering what went down between the both of you especially when you see a picture or a video of him. nobody wants to remember their ex after they are over.

2. Don’t immediately suggest to “stay friends” — and if he does, tell him you need to think about it. This is an impulse because you don’t want to seem like you care too much about the breakup. Because you’re so chill. But truthfully, during this awkward breaking-up period, it’s hard to tell whether you’ll be able to be friends or not. Generally, one person wants to be friends and the other wants to be more. Gotta work that shit out before it can be a healthy friendship … if it ever can be. You’re not admitting defeat by not staying friends with him.

3. Spend a lot of time outside. It’s a cliché, but fresh air really does clear your head. So does, you know, seeing the sun every once in a while. Take at least two hours from each day just to leave your Comfort zone and interact with The Outside world.

4. If you start dating someone else, take it really slow. Dude. You just ended a relationship and your heart flipped over and exploded like a tanker. I know most girls/guys of nowadays have zero chills, they go through a break up the previous week and the next week they are in new relationships. If you take it step by step and enjoy it as a casual thing for a while, that’ll give you some time to evaluate whether you’re actually ready to be with someone again.

5. Reach out to people, and tell them exactly what you need. You might feel like nobody will understand, or be afraid of becoming that depressed girl who can’t hold a conversation without crumbling. But we’ve all crumbled. Most people shy away from offering help only because they don’t know what you need, and they don’t feel adequate. People will surprise you with their support if you give them the chance. Be as specific about what you need as you can. “Hi, I’m sad and I need someone to listen,” is always a good place to start.

6. It feels like you’re dying, and in some ways you are. Let yourself die because dying is the only way you can be reborn. A breakup is a chance to be reborn. Give it purpose by allowing yourself to be remade. Ask yourself tough questions and feel through the answers. Who have you been up until now? Who are you really? What are you ready to let go of, and what does your heart most desire? Let this breakup propel you into Becoming yourself, more fully. You can forge something authentic and beautiful out of this pain. That way, when all the hurt has cleared, you’ll be able to look back with gratitude and pride and say “that made me who I am today.”

well, thats all I can tell you about how you can easily get over a breakup, if you are going through one just follow this steps and I am sure it will help, you can also send me an email – laminaprecious4@gmail.com. Thanks for reading!